Tuesday, December 23, 2025
Matthew 1:18–21
Love That Chooses the Hard Way
Joseph doesn’t say much in the Christmas story, but his actions speak loudly. When he learns Mary is pregnant, his world shifts in an instant. Scripture tells us Joseph is a righteous man, and his first instinct is to do what is right and to do it kindly. He plans to dismiss Mary quietly, sparing her shame.
Many of us know what it feels like to stand at a crossroads like that. To be hurt, confused, or afraid, and still try to respond with integrity. To do the loving thing when it would be easier to walk away. Joseph’s love shows up not in grand words but in careful decisions and quiet courage.
Then God intervenes. In a dream, Joseph is invited to trust a bigger story than the one he can see. He does. He stays. He protects. He steps into a future he did not plan but chooses love anyway.
Advent reminds us that love is not always easy or clear. Sometimes love is choosing faith over fear, compassion over control, and trust over certainty. Joseph shows us love often begins with doing the next right thing, even when the path ahead is uncertain.
Prayer:
God of faithfulness, give us courage to choose love when the way forward is hard. Help us trust you when the story unfolds differently than we imagined. Amen.