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Lent Season 2023

Lent Season 2023

2.24.23

We have entered the Lenten Season of 2023, beginning with Ash Wednesday. Thank you to all of you who came to have brunch with us. We were incredibly blessed to have an excellent and meaningful worship service Ash Wednesday evening, with a terrific message from our guest preacher Rev. Alfie Wines, Ph.D. If you did not have an opportunity to join us Wednesday, please take the time to view our worship service online on our YouTube channel. The church season of Lent, the 40 days, not including Sundays, is a time of self-examination and repentance in preparation for celebrating the most significant day for the Christian faith, Easter.

Please pick up a Lenten devotional Sunday to be a part of your daily spiritual discipline. The devotions are also shared online on our website and social media.

*Invitation to the Observance of Lenten Discipline

Dear Brothers and sisters in Christ:
The early Christians observed with great devotion
the days of our Lord’s passion and resurrection,
And it became the custom of the Church that before the Easter celebration, there should be a forty-day season of spiritual preparation. During this season, converts to the faith were prepared for Holy Baptism. It was also a time when persons who had committed serious sins and had separated themselves from the community of faith,
were reconciled by penitence and forgiveness,
And restored to participation in the life of the Church.
In this way, the whole congregation was reminded of the mercy, and for- giveness proclaimed in the gospel of Jesus Christ
and the need we all have to renew our faith.
I invite you, therefore, in the name of the Church,
To observe a holy Lent:
By self-examination and repentance;
By prayer, fasting, and self-denial,
And by reading and meditation on God’s Holy Word
*BOW


In Christ!
Pastor Sela

 
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Posted by on February 24, 2023 in Church, Culture, Life, Religion, Spirituality

 

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Come Holy Spirit

Come Holy Spirit

February 17, 2023

Over the past week, there have been several events around the world that have influenced my thoughts and caused me to pause, pray, and reflect, and I will share two of them. The first event that impacted me was the devastating earthquake in Turkey and Syria, claiming over 45,000 lives. It is disheartening to think about the thousands of grieving families, and my heart goes out to them. Our shared humanity connects us despite the distance and different religions that people may practice. We are all brothers and sisters, and our belief in the one monotheistic God unites us.

The second event is the outpouring of the Holy Spirit at Asbury University in Wilmore, Kentucky. The revival has been ongoing for over a week, and a couple of other universities have also caught a spark of that fire and started revivals on their campuses. This is encouraging news, no matter who is involved, but particularly when it involves young people worshiping nonstop. Thousands of people flocked to Asbury to witness and participate in the revival. It shows a hunger for spiritual renewal and that young people are willing to take up the mantle of faith. Seeing the outpouring of the Holy Spirit on a college campus filled with students is inspiring. This gives hope for the future of the church and the world. Asbury University is rooted in the Wesleyan-Holiness tradition and theology, and the university is named after Bishop Francis Asbury, the first Methodist bishop in America.

The revival at Asbury University is a reminder that the Holy Spirit is not contained in a specific time, generation, location, community, denomination, or building, for it flows freely among people who sincerely desire God. It challenges us to reflect on how we can have a revival in our community. Can we also have the outpouring of the Holy Spirit in our church and neighborhood? I can attest that I see a spark of the Holy Spirit when we gather on Sunday. I see this spark in children, youth, and all ages. And to continue this spark beyond Sunday and have it continue burning, we must first experience it (the outpouring of the Holy Spirit), spread God’s love, and pass it on. Just like the hymn, Pass It On.

There must be a deep desire in our hearts to seek God. We need to continuously ask ourselves if the work of the Holy Spirit is evident in our lives with how we speak to others and about others and with how we conduct ourselves and our affairs. How deeply do we desire God in our lives? Sometimes the outpouring of the Holy Spirit requires us to do uncomfortable things, but we know it’s from God. The Holy Spirit may lead us to leave the comfort of our building and go to places we may not want to go, but it is where we are most needed. It is a sign of whether we are only doing what we want to do or following God’s vision for us.

As we move towards Lent next week, we must repent of our sins, turn to God, and reflect on our role in the lives of others. We need to ponder on our mission of making disciples of Jesus Christ, and reflect on how and if God plays a role in our lives. The events over the past week challenged us to think beyond ourselves and consider the needs of others. It is essential to consider how we can positively impact those around us, both near and far. We can take inspiration from the revival at Asbury University and work towards spreading the outpouring of the Holy Spirit in our small groups and community. We can make a difference by fostering a culture of prayer and worship. Creating opportunities for people to gather and pray can ignite a spiritual awakening in our neighborhoods.

On Ash Wednesday, February 22, I invite you to come and receive ashes between the hours of 7:30 to 8:00 a.m. and 12:00 to 12:30 p.m. I will be in the narthex (primary entryway to the sanctuary). If you cannot get out of your car, just pull up by the door. I also invite you to brunch at 10 a.m. at the Westside Cafe on Camp Bowie. Here we can break bread, be a witness, and offer ashes to those who wish to receive them. And finally, you are invited to join us for our worship service at 7:00 p.m.

Thank you for your faithfulness.

In Christ!
Pastor Sela

 

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New Vision

New Vision

Dear Church,

Millions of people will watch the Super Bowl on TV this Sunday. Unfortunately for Dallas Cowboys fans, our team will also be watching instead of playing. The teams who make it to the Super Bowl deserve every bit since they worked hard and made necessary changes with their leaders, players, and staff. If someone is no longer contributing to the team’s success, they may better serve in another team, even if that means retirement. Everyone and everything has a season. 

The church is facing a critical time as the world has undergone a major shift in the wake of the pandemic. Many churches have experienced a decline in attendance and a reduction in offerings; some have even had to close their doors. To avoid becoming a part of the statistics of a dying church, it is imperative that we make necessary changes today with staff and leadership.

One of the most significant changes we need to make is to adapt to the changing times. In the corporate world, as with a professional football team, when something is no longer working, it is often necessary to restructure or get rid of it. The same holds true for the church. If we cling to old methods and ideas that are no longer effective, we will be left behind. The church must embrace new ideas, new technologies, and new ways of outreach if we are to reach the next generation.

Another critical change that needs to be made is to embrace new leadership. Jesus once said, “You don’t put new wine in old wineskins.” This means that as the church changes and evolves, the leadership must also change. Old leaders have limitations and tunnel vision and need to step aside to make way for the future. This church needs a new vision with new leaders who can see a future different from sustaining the status quo.

Since last year, over 2,000 churches have disaffiliated from The United Methodist Church. This division results from different opinions and theological interpretations of the Bible about human sexuality, among other theological matters. While it is heartbreaking to see our church denomination breakup, church splits and disagreements have existed since the beginning of the church. However, it is also an opportunity for growth and renewal and should not deter us from continuing our mission of furthering the kingdom of God.

As we look to the future, we cannot predict it based on the past. Everything has a season, and it is time for the church to embrace change and make way for the future. The mission of Jesus is to save the lost, heal the sick, and comfort the brokenhearted. This mission cannot be achieved by clinging to old ideas and methods. It requires a new vision, new leadership, and a willingness to embrace change. When we embrace change and make necessary adjustments to programs, staff, and lay leadership, the church will continue to be a beacon of hope in a dark world. 

Whatever team wins the Superbowl Sunday, it is clear that the Dallas Cowboys needs to make necessary changes today to increase their chances for a brighter future.

Pastor Sela

 
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Posted by on February 10, 2023 in Church, Life, Religion, Theology

 

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Make the Switch

Make the Switch

Dear Church,

How have you been? How have you been doing mentally, spiritually, and physically this week with all the freezing weather? If you are not accustomed to staying at home all day and night and feel stuck, this week has probably been a challenge. What do you do with all this time? For some of us, we were able to work from home without interruptions. For many, the time at home allowed us to catch up on tasks and spend time with family. For others, the weather was an inconvenience and disruption to our routine. Furthermore, it may have meant a loss of income. However ways we dealt with nature, I pray we were better prepared this time around. I pray that our time at home allows us to spend more time with God and study and meditate on God’s holy Word. 

I was backing out of my garage a few days ago to go somewhere. My car didn’t feel right, so I pulled it back inside the garage. It was around 25 degrees. I was in my 23-year-old car and my preferred ride. I absolutely love that car. We have history together for the past 21 years. We’ve seen our best and worst days. Two years ago, when we had the icemageddon, we plowed through it. The car has a snow-eject feature, a powerful engine, and great wheels on snow and ice. Since that frightful Valentine’s week in 2021, when it stayed below freezing for a week, and we endured without electricity and water in central Texas, I planned for the future. I needed another car to handle the subsequent ice storms better. Thus, that summer, I invested in a four-wheel drive car that could take me through the next couple of decades of ice storms. That future is here, and my four-wheel drive SUV faired well on the roads these past few days, and I am grateful I made the switch. Unfortunately, for my friends in central Texas, in both Williamson and Travis counties, many are still without power. Some had made plans with a generator, others not so much.

I share this story to say that it is, in many ways, the same as the Church. We may have a favorite and preferred way of doing things. We prefer to stick to the way we’ve always done it. It has carried us through the years. We have an emotional attachment to it and don’t want change. But if the way we’ve always done it is not reaching new people for Christ, and it’s not furthering the kingdom of God, then perhaps we need to make a switch. Continuing to ride the same vehicle will only take us so far. There is a season for everything. All things have a shelf life. When we have a vision of where we want to go, we need to switch to updated, modern, and sturdier vehicles for the changing seasons and journey. Frankly, in this Texas weather with thunder, ice, sleet, snow, and freezing rain, the only thing we need to be sliding into on the road is Jesus, who is up ahead, calling us to come to him. 

See you Sunday!

Pastor Sela

 
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Posted by on February 3, 2023 in Church, Life, Philosophy, Religion

 

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Vision

Vision
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Dear Church,

Six months ago, we embarked on a journey. The Bishop and conference brought us together to be in ministry alongside our neighbors and serve those in our mission field. Our vision for the future is to continue our mission of making disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. Without a clear vision, we may not be able to see accurately. Without a refined vision, we may go around and around as in a roundabout. The mission is to make disciples. The vision is to transform the world. We refine and define our vision by assessing our present location or where we are now and asking ourselves where we want to go from here. If we consider that everything is fine as is and we want to stay where we are, then by all means, we do not need to do anything. To remain idle is like a church on hospice.

However, if we envision a future where we are reaching more people for Christ and are committed to following the ways of Jesus, we must define our steps and create a pathway to get there. We evaluate our strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats. Continuing to do the same things repeatedly and expecting different results is not the answer. We must continuously recruit new people in new positions to bring their ideas to the table and to have new conversations and diverse perspectives.

Put simply; it’s like mapping where we’re going. Our map must first know our current location before calculating our destination. Only then will our map app line up our path with a plan to get to where we want to go. And along the way, we may encounter delays and obstacles, but with a plan in place, we can deviate and continue the journey.

In the past six months, our worship attendance increased slightly. As I have heard from several people, there is a new energy in the room. My vision for the next 12 months is to engage more people for Jesus, specifically younger people. One way we will accomplish this is with the help of a Children’s Ministry Director. The position is currently open and available. Another way of reaching more people is by enhancing our music ministry. Weekly, our media team continues to need help. One week our livestream works well; the next week, our sound is lost. The sound is excellent in a particular section of the sanctuary, while our voices are barely heard in other areas. Every aspect is a work in progress, but we can better define a path forward by analyzing our current position and making improvements.

Ultimately, our worship attendance will consequently increase as a result of our commitment to engaging the people in our mission field. We must sometimes ask whether we are genuinely committed to following Jesus and continuing his mission, or are we standing in the way, causing a delay? I pray that we are all committed followers and seek to move forward.

I look forward to seeing you Sunday!

Pastor Sela

Western Hills United Methodist Church

2820 Laredo Drive, Fort Worth, Texas 76116 http://www.westernhillsumc.org

 
 

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Back to Blogging

Back to Blogging
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Dear You!

It has been almost a decade since I last posted anything here. A lot has happened, obviously, in my life, in yours, and the world. While I cannot retrace everything that happened in the last ten years, I will once again try this blogging thing going forward. For me, writing is therapeutic.

So, from now on, for however long, I will begin to post at least once a week. Since I write a weekly article for our church newsletter, I will start there and repost my article here. If other thoughts cross my mind and I have the time and desire to express them here, I will do so.

Here’s to 2023, the next decade, and my writing adventure!

Sela

 
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Posted by on January 27, 2023 in Life, Uncategorized

 

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Exploitation In The South Pacific Island Kingdom Of Tonga

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Exploitation In The South Pacific Island Kingdom Of Tonga

On Friday, February 7, 2014, the XXII Olympic Winter Games officially opened in Sochi, Russia, and history was made. There were 88 countries represented with a total of 2,800 athletes. Seven of those countries made their Winter Olympic debut. One of those countries and one of those athletes were from a tiny group of islands named Tonga located in Oceania, also known as the South Pacific.

In the South Pacific climate, there is no winter (at least not in the sense of “Winter Olympics”). The weather is tropical with the average temperature in Tonga at 73° F (23° C).

In Olympic President Thomas Bach’s speech at the Opening Ceremony, he asserted that the “Olympic Games are a sports festival in praising human diversity in great unity” and all people are welcome regardless of their national origin. In reality, he failed to acknowledge the role of power and money. The Olympic Games are anything but a place where human diversity is truly represented, and certainly not an actual goal.

To be part of the festival of “human diversity in great unity” one must have access to an adequate amount of money and power, either from family wealth and/or sponsorship. If diversity and unity were the Olympic Games’ goal, then it failed to recognize countries and persons unable to participate due to lack of resources or funding.

It seems that countries around the world are not represented by their human capacity at the Olympic Games, but by countries that flaunt their power and money in the elite development of their athletes, or better yet, by a display of selected human athletes from particular countries who are blessed with winter seasons and mountainous terrains.

Thus, it seems rather odd that a country from the South Pacific would even consider or blink an eye at a chance to participate and be represented at the Winter Olympic Games. But Tonga, that tiny group of islands barely visible on the world map, taking part in the Winter Olympics in Sochi was exactly what happened. It was a dream come true for the tiny island kingdom and its solo athlete in luge, a sport unheard of in the South Pacific, nonetheless Tonga.

If imperialism and colonialism are defined by acts in which a dominant culture marginalizes subgroups and exploits a minority group, then this is precisely what happened. Subjugation of the island kingdom by misuse and abuse of power and money by the hegemonic culture is what took place, an unjust practice all-too-often familiar to people of color.

While the physical presence of Tonga was clearly represented at the Olympic Winter Games, the name Bruno Banani is anything but representative of the island kingdom and its rich culture and traditions, where naming is one of its core values and beliefs. While a small percentage of Tongans hold German surnames due to their ancestral heritage, Bruno Banani is not one of them. Rather, Bruno Banani is a German men’s underwear company that made a shrill business dealing with Makai Inc., a Euro-American marketing company, in the name of global capitalism and in overt exploitation of a marginalized group’s inspiration.

Clearly, corporate responsibility and human dignity were not the goal, especially not for a young company like Makai that is zealous to make a name for itself with experiential strategies.

“The domestication of the corporation into local society serves only to further mystify the location of power, which rest not in the locality but in the global headquarters of the company which coordinates its activities. Global capitalism is not a site for liberation but manipulation. It is the site the inhabitants of which must be liberated from themselves (stripped of their identities) to be homogenized into the global culture of capital” (Arif Dirlik, “The Global in the Local”).

As the tale has been told, Makai Inc came across this mischievous golden opportunity as an experimental marketing tactic in 2008. The company had a connection with Tonga’s Princess Salote Mafile’o Pilolevu Tuita, who desired for her country to be represented at the Winter Olympics.

A search for a luger was conducted in the island kingdom. There were at least 20-30 other athletes that showed up and tried out, even when they did not understand the sport of luge. Who wouldn’t if one might be given the lifetime opportunity to represent their beloved country in the Winter Olympic Games.

The selected luger was Fuahea Semi, a 26-year-old computer science student, who played rugby as a hobby with his friends. He was chosen not only for his athletic abilities but also for his humility. Who knew that humbleness was to be part of a sport’s qualification! Perhaps it is a necessary criterion for a Western marketing firm with its white executives’ coercion and exploitation of a brown body, with less chance of any protest from the brown-skin Polynesian man.

Makai Inc explained to Fuahea Semi that luge was an expensive sport and that he would need a sponsor to cover the expenses. To attract the right sponsor, Fuahea Semi, would need to change his name. This is when Makai approached Bruno Banani, the German underwear company with their scheming creative marketing ideas.

The Tongan athlete, Fuahea Semi, who had never experienced temperature below 60° F and snow, moved to Germany in 2009 to train. Many questions were raised about this dark-skinned man’s name being Bruno Banani, and they were all given the response that it was his name, and his passport was proof.

After a year of training, Bruno Banani came within one point of qualifying for the Vancouver Olympics in 2010, but he crashed in his last attempt and ended up in the hospital.

In December 2013, Bruno Banani qualified for the Sochi Winter Olympics placing 28th out of 42 lugers, even after newspapers and websites from around the world suggested that Bruno Banani should not be allowed to compete for a spot in Sochi. Bruno Banani finished 32nd in the luge final in Sochi.

This story has made world headlines. Even Thomas Bach, the president of the International Olympics Committee, called it “a perverse marketing idea….done in bad taste to change your name to that of a sponsor. This has nothing to do with proper marketing.” Yet, since Bruno Banani qualified for the Sochi games, the Olympics Committee could not prevent him from competing. After all, his name was legally changed on his passport.

Even though Bruno Banani was the name that made history for the individual and the island kingdom’s debut in the Winter Olympics Games, the whole thing was ludicrous and disconcerting. As Frantz Fanon wrote in Wretched of the Earth, “The colonist also makes history and knows it. The history he writes is therefore not the history of the country he is despoiling, but the history of his own nations’ [exploitations, racism, and injustice].”

Tu’a ‘Ofa Atu, Sela E. Finau. s.finau@yahoo.com. Follow her blog @ https://finaus.wordpress.com/.

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Give

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Give in the Season of Thanks-giving

In the wake of the typhoon in the Philippines, with thousands dead, 600,000 people displaced, and an estimated 11+ millions affected, those numbers seem overwhelming and difficult to digest. How can we relate or connect to such disaster from thousands of miles away? We really can’t. Unless you’re one of the millions then the seemingly horrific nightmare becomes real. No Food, No Water, No Medicine. Just waiting, desperately, for someone to come with aid.

My nephew, Solomone Finau, is in the Navy and is currently in the Philippines. Fresh out of high school last year, he eagerly joined the Navy. Isolated in the freezing tundra of Alaska, he’s had a blast traveling the world. An amazing and lifetime opportunity! But I wonder how this Navy mission in the Philippines will weight in on my nephew’s experience. Hopefully life changing, as he’s helping change and save lives.

Tonight at a Bible Study, one of our church members said to me that Tonga is ranked #2 on the list for the largest disaster risk worldwide. I looked it up and sure enough, it is. I knew that Tonga and the Pacific Islands were at high risk of sea-level rise, but I didn’t know that it was made official. Rank #1 is Vanuatu and ranked #3 is the Philippines. The ranking is from the World Risk Report, 2012, and is based on extreme exposure and high vulnerability due to proximity to the sea, with high exposure to cyclones, flooding and sea-level rise. A moment of reflection is needed here if you’re a Tongan or a Pacific Islander reading this. A moment of reflection here is needed if you don’t believe or know anything about climate change.

Anyway, it’s so easy for us living thousands of miles away to go about our daily routine and not be distracted. But as you go about the rest of your week, consider saying a prayer for those in need, especially the people of the Philippines. We’re all connected to each other because we’re human beings. And from one human being to another, consider foregoing a meal today and give a donation.

As a United Methodist Pastor, I’d say simply text UMCOR at 80888 and donate $10. If you can give more, you can always go to www.umcor.org. Another organization that I like to give to is the American Red Cross. You can also text them and donate $10 or visit their website http://www.redcross.org/. Or, check with your church or other organizations for ways to give.

In the Season of Thanksgiving, find a reason and a way to give.

 
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Posted by on November 14, 2013 in Life

 

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A Post from the Countryside!

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Today, a few of Bethel UMC members and I drove to Millsap for a Bell Dedication Service at the Millsap Volunteer Fire Department. The dedication service was in honor and memory of Bill Guess, offered by his family. He is a late member of Bethel and also a War Veteran and Prisoner of War. His widow, Dot Guess is an active member and is a darling with a great sense of humor.

But if you’re wondering, “Where is Millsap?” Rest assured, you’re not alone. I didn’t know where Millsap was located either until today. Living and working in the country has been quite an experience. I have traveled to many small country towns in the last three months than I have in the last, oh I don’t know, maybe decade?

But here are a few things that I’ve learned since being here in the country: 1. The word “tank” in the country refers to an artificial pond or reservoir that holds water for animal drinking. Silly me, I had thought that they were natural and cute little ponds strategically located within each farm. 2. An average farm size is around 400 acres. Average ranch size is over 500 and going into the thousands. Wow! 3. Squirrels are everywhere, and there are too many dead ones on the road along with other roadkills. Yikes! 4. Although Weatherford in Parker County is part of the Dallas Fort-Worth Metroplex and only 30 minutes West from Downtown Fort Worth, some people think that it’s actually the West, as in West Texas. 5. Parker County is much slower in pace and stepping into the towns is like stepping back in time.

In any case, like the town of Millsap, each day in Parker County I discover more of its rich history and tradition with western and pioneer heritage.

 
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Posted by on November 2, 2013 in Church, Culture, Life

 

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October 29th – Awaken to Blessings!

October 29th – Awaken to Blessings!

There’s something about 7 a.m. and my dog, Philo. He never sleeps past 7 and I can always count on him to get me up with or without my approval. The exception is on Sunday mornings when I’m the first one to wake up at 6 a.m. to prepare for the day. Sunday is both a blessing and a paradox, for not only is it the climax of the week but also the end of the week, for me at least and perhaps other pastors.

It’s Tuesday morning and my week starts over. As I am sipping on my cups of coffee I reminisce over the significant of the date. Ahh, yes, it’s October 29th, the day that my dad died 12 years ago. I still remember it as if it was yesterday. I was in the garage with my sister-in-laws preparing Tongan mats and ngatus for dad’s funeral when my oldest brother came to get me. That morning, my brothers and I witness the end of my dad’s life and the date forever carved in memory.

I still remember what my brother said that morning, to remember that our parents sacrificed everything and left Tonga in order that we might have a better opportunity in life, particularly education.

Sometimes I look at some of our Tongan youth and young adults and wonder why is it that they don’t understand, value, and appreciate education? Don’t they know that their parents and/or grandparents also have similar stories to that of my parents? Haven’t their parents explained and instill this value in them? Don’t they know that thousands of children around the world fight for a spot to attend school, and even then parents pay a great sum, and, yet, many are still left without the opportunity? Don’t they know that Tonga have one of the highest rate of literacy in the world per capita at 99%? Tongans living in Tonga can read and write in Tongan, and many times they can also read and write in English. What does that say about us Tongans living abroad? Many do not even speak, read, or write in the Tongan language and are thoughtless to culture and tradition. Don’t they know that language is a key element to survival of a culture and tradition? Yikes! Makes my stomach turn!

In a society where it prizes individual accomplishments, we often forget that we come from a culture that thrives on family and community, that there’s no distinction between first and second cousins from our own brothers and sisters. Nuclear family indeed is defined differently in the Poly-nesian CommUnity.

I wonder, are we taking advantage of the endless resources available to us in our adopted countries? Why can’t they see what I see and take advantage of the opportunity? Yuk! 😦

But isn’t that true of life, we take things for granted when we have them. And we wish for things when we don’t. We don’t try as hard when we know there will always be something else. We complain way too much and appreciate way too little. We consume more than enough and waste a disgraceful and outrageous sum.

Ahh, life, we are infinitely blessed yet we do not know it. May we be awaken to that reality. May you be awaken to your blessings!

 
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Posted by on October 29, 2013 in Culture, Family, Life

 

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