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A Post from the Countryside!

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Today, a few of Bethel UMC members and I drove to Millsap for a Bell Dedication Service at the Millsap Volunteer Fire Department. The dedication service was in honor and memory of Bill Guess, offered by his family. He is a late member of Bethel and also a War Veteran and Prisoner of War. His widow, Dot Guess is an active member and is a darling with a great sense of humor.

But if you’re wondering, “Where is Millsap?” Rest assured, you’re not alone. I didn’t know where Millsap was located either until today. Living and working in the country has been quite an experience. I have traveled to many small country towns in the last three months than I have in the last, oh I don’t know, maybe decade?

But here are a few things that I’ve learned since being here in the country: 1. The word “tank” in the country refers to an artificial pond or reservoir that holds water for animal drinking. Silly me, I had thought that they were natural and cute little ponds strategically located within each farm. 2. An average farm size is around 400 acres. Average ranch size is over 500 and going into the thousands. Wow! 3. Squirrels are everywhere, and there are too many dead ones on the road along with other roadkills. Yikes! 4. Although Weatherford in Parker County is part of the Dallas Fort-Worth Metroplex and only 30 minutes West from Downtown Fort Worth, some people think that it’s actually the West, as in West Texas. 5. Parker County is much slower in pace and stepping into the towns is like stepping back in time.

In any case, like the town of Millsap, each day in Parker County I discover more of its rich history and tradition with western and pioneer heritage.

 
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Posted by on November 2, 2013 in Church, Culture, Life

 

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October 29th – Awaken to Blessings!

October 29th – Awaken to Blessings!

There’s something about 7 a.m. and my dog, Philo. He never sleeps past 7 and I can always count on him to get me up with or without my approval. The exception is on Sunday mornings when I’m the first one to wake up at 6 a.m. to prepare for the day. Sunday is both a blessing and a paradox, for not only is it the climax of the week but also the end of the week, for me at least and perhaps other pastors.

It’s Tuesday morning and my week starts over. As I am sipping on my cups of coffee I reminisce over the significant of the date. Ahh, yes, it’s October 29th, the day that my dad died 12 years ago. I still remember it as if it was yesterday. I was in the garage with my sister-in-laws preparing Tongan mats and ngatus for dad’s funeral when my oldest brother came to get me. That morning, my brothers and I witness the end of my dad’s life and the date forever carved in memory.

I still remember what my brother said that morning, to remember that our parents sacrificed everything and left Tonga in order that we might have a better opportunity in life, particularly education.

Sometimes I look at some of our Tongan youth and young adults and wonder why is it that they don’t understand, value, and appreciate education? Don’t they know that their parents and/or grandparents also have similar stories to that of my parents? Haven’t their parents explained and instill this value in them? Don’t they know that thousands of children around the world fight for a spot to attend school, and even then parents pay a great sum, and, yet, many are still left without the opportunity? Don’t they know that Tonga have one of the highest rate of literacy in the world per capita at 99%? Tongans living in Tonga can read and write in Tongan, and many times they can also read and write in English. What does that say about us Tongans living abroad? Many do not even speak, read, or write in the Tongan language and are thoughtless to culture and tradition. Don’t they know that language is a key element to survival of a culture and tradition? Yikes! Makes my stomach turn!

In a society where it prizes individual accomplishments, we often forget that we come from a culture that thrives on family and community, that there’s no distinction between first and second cousins from our own brothers and sisters. Nuclear family indeed is defined differently in the Poly-nesian CommUnity.

I wonder, are we taking advantage of the endless resources available to us in our adopted countries? Why can’t they see what I see and take advantage of the opportunity? Yuk! 😦

But isn’t that true of life, we take things for granted when we have them. And we wish for things when we don’t. We don’t try as hard when we know there will always be something else. We complain way too much and appreciate way too little. We consume more than enough and waste a disgraceful and outrageous sum.

Ahh, life, we are infinitely blessed yet we do not know it. May we be awaken to that reality. May you be awaken to your blessings!

 
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Posted by on October 29, 2013 in Culture, Family, Life

 

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Friday Morning!

It’s Friday morning, and I’m awake at 7:00 a.m. My dog, Philo, is eager to get out. I tell him not yet, but he seems not to understand. So we get up and it’s still dark outside, cloudy, humid and cool. It’s supposed to be my day off, but I have a golf tournament with one of my church. I’ve never played golf before, so today will be a first.

As I’m enjoying my cups of coffee, I thought of checking this blog that I’ve neglected for the past couple of months. But it’s been a busy couple of months. For the month of August and September, I’ve presided and co-presided over 4 different funerals. I realize that’s part of a pastor’s job, but when a couple of those funerals involved family and friends, it’s more than just a pastor’s job.

I’ve traveled to Washington, D.C. for a board meeting with the General Commission on Religion and Race, and then to Boston where I co-officiated with a Catholic Priest at my niece, Amelia’s wedding to James, an Irish. It was a day of celebration, not just with our family, but to see Catholic and Protestant, Irish and Tongan, both immigrant islanders to the U.S. is an amazing story and blessing. A reflection of unity in diversity. A glimpse of the Kingdom of God.

It was nice and refreshing to be away. But since being back, it’s been endless meetings. The mileage I’ve put in my car is ridiculously not ecologically friendly. I could go on a little more in this area, but I will address that at another time.

Anyway, last week, after being on leave for the past couple of months, I officially resigned from my position with TD Ameritrade after 5+ years. It’s been a great experience dealing with people around the world and Wall Street. If there’s one thing that I’ve learned while working in the industry, is that the world does not sleep, at least not at the same time. And whatever happens here in the U.S. from sociopolitical, geopolitics to various market segments affects the world, and whatever happens around the world affects the U.S., financial or otherwise. The Global Market is cyclical, projecting, hopeful, tempting, doubtful, risky, costly, fearful, volatile, reactionary, and reflectionary.

I surely will not miss working 12 hours overnight. That was a killer to the body, mind, and soul. But the irony is that the overnight schedule afforded me the opportunity and flexibility to attend seminary. Two masters degrees later is not bad for a sleepless islander. While I will not miss the chaos of the market, I will miss the excitement. My series 7 & 63 broker licenses is now a thing of the past. And those 7 hours securities industry exams made my eyes and head hurt.

Now, instead of being asked about the DOW, NASDAQ, and S&P, I get asked about church membership, its offering and ministries. Moving onward and living out a calling in the business of Trust, Faith, Hope, and Love. The church ministry, an exciting, rewarding, yet difficult and lonely place to be at times.

Now excuse me while I go and play golf.

 

 
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Posted by on October 11, 2013 in Church, Culture, Life

 

Love God, Self, and Neighbor

Sunday, July 14, 2013

Annetta United Methodist Church, Annetta, Texas

Bethel United Methodist Church, Weatherford, Texas

Scripture: Luke 10:25-37

Sermon_ Love God, Self, and Neighbor

 

 
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Posted by on July 14, 2013 in Church, Culture, Life, Media, Podcasts

 

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Commissioned!

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The Central Texas Annual Conference of The United Methodist Church opened with a beautiful Worship Service on Sunday, June 9, and concluded today, Wednesday, June 12, 2013 at Arborlawn UMC in Fort Worth, Texas. It was business as usual it seemed for most people, but for me 2 things made it special, my commissioning and meeting up with school friends and colleagues.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013, was a very joyous, meaningful, heartfelt, and spiritual moving day. It was the most amazing evening for me, thus far, as I got commissioned as Provisional Elder of the Conference. I didn’t feel so much a sense of accomplishment as I did feel God led and that I am where I am because that’s where God wants me to be. Yes, a sense of my calling being affirmed was what I felt.

Bishop Mike Lowry preached a very relevant and brilliant sermon. The entire service was beautiful and I truly appreciated the Bishop’s message. His sense of humor and thought-provoking style was splendid. The best captured phrase that seemed to have made its round in Twitter was “If you want to make God laugh, tell her your plans.” How true on so many levels.

I was so ecstatic and grateful that all of my family, which included 7 brothers, their wives and children, were present to witness and to share the special evening. One of my brothers could not make it but was represented by his son. And, I was very happy that my oldest brother was present and stood with me as I got commissioned.

I am grateful to the friends who also came to show support. And to the family and friends who were not present, I appreciated your thoughts and prayers.

I give thanks to God for my family and all the wonderful people I have met throughout the years. Your love, friendships, encouragements, and prayers have helped me come this far, and I thank you.

But now that Conference is over and I have been appointed to 2 churches, I need to attend to my responsibilities of leading God’s people which includes writing a sermon for this Sunday and every Sunday thereafter. Whoa!! Am I really not ready as the Bishop conveyed last night in his message? Whether I think I am ready or not, I do firmly believe in my response to one of his examination question, “With God’s help, I will.”

On top of that, I have 3 weeks to find a place to move to, as I close on my home the 1st week of July. Yikes! Time to get busy! But, confidently and faithfully, I do believe that with God’s help, I will! Amen!

 
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Posted by on June 12, 2013 in Church, Culture, Family, Life, Religion, Spirituality

 

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Heavens Telling Of Your Glory

A Lenten Devotional for Day 36: Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Heavens Telling Of Your Glory

Scripture: Psalm 19

Devotion: Some of you know that I work another job at night, and for those of you that don’t, before you start wondering “what kind of job?” I will soon explain. Needless to say, working at nights has not always been a pleasant experience, especially working 12-hour nights and being up for more than 24 hours at a time. That is never good for the body, mind, and spirit. Nevertheless, that has been my work schedule for the last 4.5 years, as I had to find employment that would work with my seminary school schedule. How I managed seminary work and this overnight job is beyond me. This is one of those things that I consider a God thing.

In any case, I realize early on working in the financial industry that while America sleeps, the rest of the world is awake, from Asia to the Pacific to Europe, and that we’re all connected in this global network, financial or otherwise. This means that what happens around the world affects the U.S., and vice versa. I think of what happens to us as individuals and a people affects God.

One of the benefits of working from evening till dawn is that I am privileged to see many sunsets, sunrises, endless clouds and skies in incredibly astonishing colors and form. Each time I see it, whether I’m on my way to work or on my way home, I am always in awe of the beauty of creation and how fortunate we are to be given the opportunity to witness the splendor and magnificence of this world that we live in. I pondered on how amazing it is that we’re all connected to the sun and endless clouds in the skies, giving us a glimpse of God’s glory.

I am reminded of how humanity seems insignificant in the midst of vast stretches of the cosmos and time and space. I think about how we’re all tiny specs in this big cosmos, but am comforted in knowing that God journeys with us each and every day and watches over us whether we’re asleep or awake.

Prayer: Creator God, We give you thanks for all of creation, and we give you thanks for the gift of life. This Lenten season, a time of self-reflection, a time of growth and renewal, open our eyes, ears, minds, and hearts, so that we may live into what you have created us to be. Amen

*Originally published as part of a Lenten Devotional Booklet that I compiled and edited for Martin United Methodist Church.

– See more at: http://www.martinmethodist.org/connect/devotions-for-the-season-of-lent/#sthash.Jm50Cxzq.dpuf

 

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Planters

A Lenten Devotional for Day 34: Saturday, March 23, 2013

Planters

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 3:6-10 (NRSV) I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth. The one who plants and the one who waters have a common purpose, and each will receive wages according to the labor of each. For we are God’s servants, working together; you are God’s field, God’s building.

Devotion: Today, I met with my district mentor, Rev. Judy Hunt, at White’s Chapel UMC in Southlake. As part of the UMC ordination candidacy process, I am assigned a mentor and I’m required to meet with this mentor for a minimum of 4 times a year. The process is very rigorous, selective, and lengthy and not everyone reaches the end of the tunnel. Nevertheless, the process and system are in place for a purpose.

My meeting with my mentor, in part, is to check-in with how I’m doing in ministry and life. On this particular meeting, I was excited to share with Judy my current involvement with various ministries at Martin, including our Evangelism Spring theme of Come Grow With Us in Faith & that We’re all Seeds in God’s hands.

Judy saw that I had picked up one of their devotional book and said that I should check out today’s devotional because it talked about seeds. Later in the evening as I was reading the devotional, I immediately connect it to my life. The authors talked about how “a life of faith is a life of seed-planting.” And most of the time, the planter is not around to see the seeds bear fruits. I couldn’t agree more. I thought of how it was never my intention or goal to go into seminary and ministry. But one thing led to another and I ended up in seminary, still with no plans of going into ministry, but with the aspiration to learn about the history of Christianity and my faith origin. It was in seminary that I began to realize that I didn’t end up in the classroom by serendipity and that I wasn’t just there to get an education or to fulfill my inquisitive mind. Rather, God was calling me into ministry, a seed that was planted years ago, and had taken roots in my family tree. You see many of my family members are in ministry, in the Free Wesleyan Church of Tonga, either working as pastors of a church, an educator for the church, have retired, or had a life working for the church. My grandparents were ministers and my great-grandparents and great great-grandparents were placed into exile when Christianity first arrived in Tonga because they chose to follow the new religion, because they chose to follow Christ.

The seeds that my parents and family instilled in my life growing up years ago are bearing fruits. While I wish that they were alive today, I’m grateful for their seed planting. Likewise, we’re doing the same in others’ lives, planting seeds. Maybe we’ll be around to see it bear fruit or maybe we won’t. But God pushes us forward to plant anyways and not be so eager to see the results. May we be reminded that planting seeds requires time to grow. This Lenten season, may you continue to grow in your faith, and may you continue to plant seeds in someone else’s as we remember our Lord who calls us to be planters.

Prayer: Creator God, Thank you for the seeds that you have planted in people’s lives. Thank you for making it grow. Amen

*Originally published as part of a devotional booklet that I compiled and edited for Martin United Methodist Church.

– See more at: http://www.martinmethodist.org/connect/devotions-for-the-season-of-lent/#sthash.Jm50Cxzq.dpuf

 

Happy New Year!

Just finishing up my sermon for our Tongan New Year’s Eve Worship Service tonight. It’s a bit difficult to say something relevant in both English and Tongan, to young and older folks, and stay within my time limit. Hoooiiiiii!!!! But I will get it done! Sermon text on Acts 17:28.

All are invited to our eating/feast celebration at 3:00 p.m. at Martin United Methodist Church, Bedford, Texas. Worship Service will be at 10:00 p.m. to midnight.

Uike Lotu will be this Thursday and Friday at 6:00 p.m.

Happy New Year to my family and friends around the globe, but especially those in the Southern Hemisphere celebrating 19 hours ahead of us here in Texas. May the God of old and new journey with you in the new year, 2013, and beyond!

 
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Posted by on December 31, 2012 in Culture, Life, Religion

 

A Christmas Reflection

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Yeshua, the Christ, is among you

Scripture: Luke: 17:20 (NRSV): Once Jesus was asked by the Pharisees when the kingdom of God was coming, and he answered, “The kingdom of God is not coming with things that can be observed; nor will they say, ‘Look, here it is!’ or ‘There it is!’ For, in fact, the kingdom of God is among you.”

Devotion: It is Christmas Day! Happy Birthday, Yeshua! Happy Birth-Day to Mary and Joseph. And, Merry Christmas to you! I intentionally use the Hebrew name of Jesus, Yeshua, because it literally means, Salvation from the Lord. And what better day to appropriate his name than today.

As we join others around the world to remember and celebrate the significance and the joy of this season, we surround ourselves with loved ones. Yet, on this Christmas day, on this Advent & Christmas Season, there are many among us who may not share the same sentiments in these jolly and holydays. Some are mourning the lost of loved ones and are hurting. Some are lonely and afraid. Some are angry and lost. Some are weary, in despair, and ready to give up. Some are anxious to be discovered, to be liberated, and to be loved. Some are searching and yearning, for something, yet unknown. May we be mindful of those among us and around us during these Holydays Season and share Yeshua with them.

Some, like our Jewish sisters and brothers, are waiting for their Messiah to come for the first time. Some, like us, are waiting for the second coming of Christ. Nobel Laureate and Holocaust survivor, Elie Wiesel, told a story by Martin Buber, a Jewish Philosopher, who said to a group of Jewish and Christian theologians, “My good friends, what is the difference between you and me? Both of us, all of us believe, because we are religious, in the coming of the Messiah. You believe that the Messiah came, went back, and that you are waiting for Him for the second coming. We Jews believe He hasn’t come yet, but He will come. In other words, we are waiting. You for the second coming, we for the first coming. Let’s wait together.” After a pause, he said, “And when He will come, we will ask Him, have you been here before?” said Buber. “I hope I will be behind Him and I will whisper in His ear, please do not answer.”

While the story may bring smiles and laughter to many of us, the point of the message here, at least for me, and I hope that you will consider it also, is that Christ’s coming for the first or second time points us not so much to a future destination, as much as it points us to look for others among us whom we can serve as Christ, for Christ, and with Christ. So on this Yeshua day, let us give thanks to God who has been born for us. Let us look for Yeshua – Salvation from the Lord “in the least of these,” and in all people that we encounter daily.

Prayer: Merciful God, We give you thanks for Yeshua. Amen

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Posted by on December 25, 2012 in Culture, Life, Religion, Spirituality, Theology

 

3rd and final day apart from facebook

It is Monday, January 31, 2011. It has also been three days since I last signed on to facebook. I think I’ve successfully completed my weekend “fast.”

But now that I can actually sign back on to facebook, I am in no rush. I am also making some changes. That is, I’m creating a schedule where I will only be on facebook for a total of 1 hour per day (and even that seems like a lot), including the time that I take to read other posts. This also means that, I will be unsubscribing from various news sources and groups, and re-evaluating my “friends” list to make some adjustments. This can include removing some “friends” or hiding them from my feed. No offense to some of you, but this is simply a case of IO, that is Information Overload. There’s no need for excess information to be competing for my attention when I’ve got a pretty tight schedule. 13 credit hours of grad school or seminary work plus 36 work hours hardly leaves room for anything else, particularly spirituality or God.

Anyway, from my last post, I asked the question, “Are social networks such as facebook and twitter a religion?”

Well, let’s first define what we mean by religion since there are multitude of answers. Following are some definitions given by both Christian and non-Christian folks.

Ludwig Feuerbach: “Christian theology has tended to interpret the externalized image of “feeling” or self-consciousness as a wholly other, absolute essence, whereas in fact it is a self-feeling feeling. Religion is the projection of human needs, an expression of the uttered sorrow of the soul.”

Karl Marx: “The religious world is but the reflex of the real world.  It is the imaginary sun which seems to humans to revolve around themselves until they realize that they themselves are the center of their own revolution.  God is simply a projection of human concerns. Religion is therefore the result of a certain set of social and economic conditions.”

Sigmund Freud:  “Religion is an illusion and it derives its strength from the fact that it falls in with our instinctual desires.  Illusions are not deliberate deceptions; they are simply ideas that arise from within the human unconsciousness, as it seeks to fulfill its deepest yearnings and longs.”  God therefore is viewed as a “wish-fulfillment,” arising from repressed, unconscious infantile longings for protection and security.

Karl Barth: “Religion including Christianity is an obstacle and must be eliminated if God is to be discerned in Christ.”  And it is idolatrous, in that it involves people worshiping a human construction.  Religion as a human construction is contrasted with divine revelation.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer: Argued for a religionless Christianity- meaning that “faith which is based not upon untenable and discredited notion of “natural human religiosity,” but upon God’s self-revelation in Christ.  An appeal to culture, to metaphysics, or to religion was to be avoided.”

John B. Cobb: Argues that the argument about religion is pointless.  “There is no such thing as religion.  There are only traditions, movements, communities, peoples, beliefs, and practices that have features that are associated by many people with what they mean by religion.”

And, in other popular definition, religion is defined by the four C’s: Creed, Code, Cult, and Community.  But what is more important to remember is that each religion’s goal is different, such as redemption, liberation, enlightenment, heaven, salvation, etc. This also means that we shouldn’t be qualifying, validating, and judging other religions based on our criteria. Or in other words, we shouldn’t be playing a universal “truth” game since different rules applies to different games.

Anyway, I don’t know about you, but I think that based on some of the definitions above, facebook is a religion. So just how committed are you?

I now return to my original post from Friday, which stated the purpose of this “fast” as a class assignment, and with the following question. Through the discipline of fasting, did I gain greater control over my life and allowed God to gain access and redirect and heal me in body, mind, and spirit? I will only say that at this point, I am making progress.

*Note: I am aware that all definitions of religion listed above are from male perspectives, but it is with intentions since that is how, traditionally, culture has viewed forms of authority.

 

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