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Love Has Come to Stay

Love Has Come to Stay

Christmas Day – December 25, 2025

John 1:14
Love Has Come to Stay

The Word became flesh and lived among us. Love did not merely visit, it moved in. God chose to dwell fully with humanity, sharing in joy and sorrow, celebration and struggle.

Christmas Day reminds us that God’s love is not limited to one night or one moment. Christ comes to stay. To walk with us through ordinary days and uncertain seasons. To guide us, heal us, and remind us that we are not alone.

Whatever today looks like for you, busy or quiet, joyful or tender, God is present. Love has taken up residence in the world, and nothing will ever be the same.

Today, rest in this gift. Christ is born. Love has come to stay.

Prayer:
God of love, we give thanks for the gift of Christ. Help us live each day rooted in your presence and guided by your love. Amen.

Merry Christmas!

 

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Love Has Come Near

Love Has Come Near

Christmas Eve – December 24, 2025

Luke 2:1–14
Love Has Come Near

On this holy night, love does not arrive with fanfare or force. It comes quietly, in a stable, under the cover of darkness, wrapped in vulnerability. God chooses nearness over power, presence over perfection.

The world Christ enters is not calm or orderly. It is crowded, uncertain, and restless, much like our own. Yet this is exactly where God chooses to dwell. Not waiting for everything to be right, but coming close in the middle of it all.

Tonight, we remember that love does not stand at a distance. It steps into our lives as they are. It meets us in our fears, hopes, longings, and needs. The angels’ song announces peace, not because the world is suddenly fixed, but because God is with us.

As candles are lit and voices rise in song, receive this truth: Christ is born for you. Love has come near.

Prayer:
God with us, thank you for coming close. Fill our hearts with wonder, peace, and gratitude as we welcome the birth of Christ. Amen. 

Merry Christmas! 

 

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Love That Chooses the Hard Way

Love That Chooses the Hard Way

Tuesday, December 23, 2025

Matthew 1:18–21
Love That Chooses the Hard Way

Joseph doesn’t say much in the Christmas story, but his actions speak loudly. When he learns Mary is pregnant, his world shifts in an instant. Scripture tells us Joseph is a righteous man, and his first instinct is to do what is right and to do it kindly. He plans to dismiss Mary quietly, sparing her shame.

Many of us know what it feels like to stand at a crossroads like that. To be hurt, confused, or afraid, and still try to respond with integrity. To do the loving thing when it would be easier to walk away. Joseph’s love shows up not in grand words but in careful decisions and quiet courage.

Then God intervenes. In a dream, Joseph is invited to trust a bigger story than the one he can see. He does. He stays. He protects. He steps into a future he did not plan but chooses love anyway.

Advent reminds us that love is not always easy or clear. Sometimes love is choosing faith over fear, compassion over control, and trust over certainty. Joseph shows us love often begins with doing the next right thing, even when the path ahead is uncertain.

Prayer:
God of faithfulness, give us courage to choose love when the way forward is hard. Help us trust you when the story unfolds differently than we imagined. Amen.

 

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Love That Came Anyway

Love That Came Anyway

Monday, December 22, 2025

1 John 4:9–10
Love That Came Anyway

As the year draws to a close, many of us look back. We remember moments of faithfulness and moments we wish we could redo. There were days we showed up fully and days we fell short. Some choices were life-giving; others shaped by fear, exhaustion, or uncertainty.

Scripture reminds us that God knows all of this—and still chose to send Jesus into the world.

God did not wait for humanity to get it right. God did not wait for us to be faithful, generous, or strong enough. Out of love, Christ was sent to help, heal, guide, and save us, right in the middle of our unfinished stories.

Advent invites us to hold our whole year before God: the good and the hard, the faithful and the messy. Love does not arrive as a reward. It comes as a gift. Jesus enters the world not because we are worthy but because God is loving.

As Christmas draws closer, receive this truth again: whatever this year has held for you, God has not given up. Love has come anyway.

Prayer:
God of mercy and love, receive all that this year has been. Thank you for sending Christ to meet us in our need, to guide us toward healing and hope. Amen.

 

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Love That Comes to Us

Love That Comes to Us

Fourth Sunday of Advent – December 21, 2025

Luke 1:39–45
Love That Comes to Us

Have you ever had an unexpected guest, someone you admired deeply, whose presence felt like a gift? Maybe you wondered, What did I do to deserve this? The house wasn’t ready, life wasn’t perfectly in order, but the moment still felt surprising and holy.

That must be how Elizabeth felt when Mary arrived at her door. This was no ordinary visit. Mary brought both uncertainty and promise, and Elizabeth, who knew what it was to wait, was suddenly filled with joy. Scripture tells us that the child in her womb leapt, and Elizabeth was filled with wonder. “Why has this happened to me,” she asks, “that the mother of my Lord comes to me?” Her question is not doubt, but awe.

Elizabeth sees grace when it appears. She does nothing to earn it. She simply receives it.

That is how God’s love works. Grace comes to us, often unexpectedly and rarely when we expect it. Advent reminds us that Christ does not wait for us to be ready or deserving. Christ comes to us. Love draws near. And something inside us stirs with joy.

Today, think about where grace might be surprising you. God may already be closer than you realize.

Prayer:
God of love and grace, open our hearts to receive your presence with gratitude and joy as we prepare for Christ’s coming. Amen.

 

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Joy on the Edge of Arrival

Joy on the Edge of Arrival

Saturday, December 20, 2025

Luke 1:46–49
Joy on the Edge of Arrival

Mary sings her song before the child is born. Her joy comes not from having all the answers, but from trusting what God has started. She rejoices, not because the path is simple, but because God keeps promises.

There is a particular kind of joy that comes when we are close, close to a long-awaited moment, close to an answered prayer, close to something new taking shape. Advent holds us in that space. We are not yet at Christmas, but we can feel it approaching. Joy gathers there, at the edge of arrival.

This joy is often quiet and steady. It shows up in final preparations, in small acts of care, in the ordinary faithfulness of showing up one more time. It reminds us that God does not wait for perfect conditions to draw near.

As this Advent week comes to an end, pause for a moment. Take a breath. Notice the joy that is already here, even before everything is finished. God is closer than we think.

Prayer:
God of promise, steady our hearts as we wait. Help us rejoice in what you are already bringing to life among us. Amen.

 

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Joy That Lingers

Joy That Lingers

Thursday, December 18, 2025

Luke 2:19
Joy That Lingers

After the shepherds arrived in Bethlehem and shared what they had seen and heard, the scene quieted. Luke tells us that Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart. Joy did not rush past her. It stayed. It settled. It lingered.

Not all joy is loud or immediate. Some joy takes time to sink in. It shows up after the moment has passed when we replay a conversation, remember a shared smile, or sit quietly with what God has revealed. Advent invites us into that kind of joy, the kind that doesn’t demand a response right away, but gently reshapes us from the inside.

We live in a world that moves quickly, where joy can feel fleeting or easily interrupted. Yet Mary reminds us that joy can be held, reflected upon, and carried forward. It can sustain us long after the moment itself has ended.

Today, notice where joy may be lingering for you. It might be found in a memory, a word spoken earlier this week, or a quiet sense of peace you can’t fully explain. Hold it gently. Treasure it. God is still at work.

Prayer:
God who dwells among us, help us notice and hold the joy you place in our hearts. Teach us to treasure your presence as we wait for Christ’s coming. Amen.

 
 

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A Prayer for Those Affected by the California Fires

A Prayer for Those Affected by the California Fires

1.9.25

A Prayer for Those Affected by the California Fires

God of Mercy, we come before you with heavy hearts as the fires rage across Southern California. We lift up in prayer all who are affected, trusting in your unending compassion.

For the Lost: We grieve for those who have lost their lives. Receive them into your eternal peace, and bring comfort to their loved ones who mourn.

For the Displaced: Be with those who have fled their homes, leaving behind familiarity, treasured memories, and the comforts of life built with love. May they find safety, peace amid the chaos, and trust in your abiding care.

For the Grieving: Hold close those who now face the overwhelming loss of homes, livelihoods, and entire communities. Surround them with your tender compassion and stir up the strength and kindness of neighbors, friends, and strangers alike.

For the Vulnerable: Protect all pets, livestock, and wild animals endangered by the flames. Guide them to safety, and bless the hands of those who rescue and care for them.

For the First Responders: Bless the firefighters, rescue teams, and emergency workers who risk their lives to protect others. Grant them courage, strength, and moments of rest as they face exhaustion and danger.

For Creation: We pray for the forests, fields, and all that you have made, scarred by the flames. Teach us to be wise and faithful stewards of your creation, and inspire us to work for its restoration and care in the days to come.

For the Community: In the midst of devastation, may hope take root. Let the generosity of strangers, the courage of neighbors, and the shared labor of rebuilding restore what has been lost.

God of comfort and restoration, let your healing presence fill the hearts of all who suffer. Strengthen them for the days to come, and may your peace, which passes all understanding, sustain them through the darkness.

Amen.

 

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What Then Shall We Do? A Christmas and New Year’s Reflection

What Then Shall We Do? A Christmas and New Year’s Reflection

12.19.24

What Then Shall We Do? A Christmas and New Year’s Reflection

As we journey through Advent and approach Christmas, we hear John the Baptist’s urgent call from the wilderness: “Prepare the way of the Lord!” His challenge to the crowd resonates with us today: “What then shall we do?”

John reminds us that preparing for Christ’s coming is not about relying on our church traditions, family name, or how much money or time we give the church. None of these outward signs can genuinely prepare our hearts. Instead, it’s about how we reflect God’s love and justice in the way we live. John calls us to bear fruit that shows repentance—a life that aligns with God’s will.

This requires a shift in our attitudes and ways. Are we sharing the blessings God has given us, or are we holding onto them for ourselves? God’s blessings were never meant for us to hoard. They are meant to flow through us, reaching those in need. Preparing for Christ means living with open hands and open hearts. It means practicing compassion and integrity in our everyday actions. It means being generous to those who lack, showing fairness in how we treat others, and embodying God’s justice in all we do.

As we prepare to celebrate the birth of Christ, let us examine our lives and ask ourselves hard questions: Where do we need to let go of pride, selfishness, or complacency? How can we show more love and justice to those around us? Advent is not only a time to anticipate Christ’s coming but also a time to realign our lives to reflect His kingdom.

This Christmas, let us welcome Christ into our celebrations and our actions. As we step into the New Year, may we commit to living lives of generosity, compassion, and integrity—lives that prepare the way for the Lord every day.

Christ is coming—may our hearts, homes, and lives be ready to receive Him.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Pastor Sela 

 

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Second Review Of Moana 2 From A Critical Lens

Second Review Of Moana 2 From A Critical Lens

12.7.24

Second Review of Moana 2 From a Critical Lens

When I wrote my first review of Moana 2, I reflected on the power of storytelling, particularly when it comes to our Pasifika heritage. I encouraged us to hold space for both critique and appreciation—to celebrate the visibility the film brings while remaining aware of the complexities of how our stories are told. Now, as I think more deeply, I will review it from a critical lens, especially about the younger generation in my family, I have a question for you:

Do you know your story? Do you know your people’s talanoa (stories)?

Ko ho’o ha’u mei fe? ‘Oku ke ‘ilo ho’o talanoa?

I hope we’re not relying on Disney to teach us about our cultural heritage. When someone else tells our story, it comes with a twist—and a cost. The twist is that palangi (foreigners) will always frame it through their lens. What is the cost? Exploitation. While Moana 2 showcases Pasifika culture beautifully, it’s essential to ask who benefits. Disney has made billions off these films, yet our islands and communities see little of that profit. Couldn’t a company of Disney’s magnitude contribute to fighting climate change, which directly impacts many of our islands? Or perhaps fund scholarships for Pasifika youth to help preserve and promote our culture?

As I said before, the best way to tell our talanoa is for us to tell it ourselves. Share them with your children, your family, and your community. Write books. Create short films. Use your gifts to tell our truths.

And another thing—I’ve seen many of our Pasifika people engaged in debates on social media about identity, race, and ethnicity. While these talanoa (conversations) can be insightful and thought-provoking, they can also become exhausting. It’s difficult to have meaningful dialogue with those who lack the same depth of knowledge, lived experience, or cultural roots. Everyone views the world from a unique position shaped by their background and privileges. Colonization, at its core, seeks to erase these differences—pressuring us to conform to its standards while erasing the richness of our identities and cultures.

A vital part of preserving our culture and talanoa is language. Do you speak your cultural language? For many in the diaspora, the importance of our native languages is often overlooked. Native speakers acquire the language naturally at home, not in a classroom. When we fail to pass on our languages, we fail to pass on our culture—and in doing so, we risk fulfilling the colonizer’s agenda. Language is a core part of identity, and its loss leads to the erosion of cultural knowledge and traditions. To speak only the colonizer’s language and embrace only the master’s culture, including religion, is to slowly lose ourselves. Valuing and preserving our native languages is an act of resistance, resilience, and love for our heritage.

Still, I have to acknowledge the film’s positives. Moana 2 represents Pasifika people from across Polynesia, Micronesia, and Melanesia. This is a big deal. Representation matters—not just in movies, but also in classrooms, corporate boardrooms, and churches. And it’s worth noting how far we’ve come. The film avoids the stereotypical portrayals of Pasifika people as savages or troublemakers, which we’ve seen far too often in media.

For example, think of the offensive depictions in Jonah from Tonga (the TV mini-series) or the 2014 Sochi Olympics, where Tonga’s representation was reduced to a marketing ploy by a German underwear company. In my critique of the Sochi debacle, I wrote:

“If imperialism and colonialism are defined by acts in which a dominant culture marginalizes subgroups and exploits a minority group, then this is precisely what happened… While the physical presence of Tonga was clearly represented at the Olympic Winter Games, the name Bruno Banani is anything but representative of the island kingdom and its rich culture and traditions.”

(You can read the full critique on my blog: Representation Matters.)

So, while Moana 2 isn’t perfect, it’s an opportunity and a gateway to something greater. It offers visibility and a chance for us to reflect on our talanoa. It’s a reminder of the importance of owning our stories and the urgency of preserving the cultural pillars that sustain them, like language.

Ultimately, Moana 2 shines a light on the resilience, beauty, and interconnectedness of our people. But it’s up to us to take it further—celebrating our heritage, challenging exploitation, and ensuring that our talanoa remains vibrant, authentic, and unapologetically ours.

Malō ‘aupito. ‘Ofa atu. Folau ā.

sela finau

 

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